High Stakes Mating – Chinese Men and Women Face Off

High Stakes Mating – Chinese Men and Women Face Off


Materialistic Women. Hard Pressed Men. Men v. Women High Stakes Transaction High Stakes Mating (?) How much money does a man need for you to marry him? Monthly salary must be at least 5000 to 6000 (RMB) He should make over 10,000 RMB a month At least over 10,000 per month I feel in a big city this is the least you need I feel a lot of women should consider first whether they have the wherewithal to ask for so much If she’s like Sister Furong [a not so attractive young lady celebrity] She shouldn’t ask for so much. Even Sister Furong wants Chen Guanxi [famous Hong Kong actor] Have a new house…has a car…then that’s OK Don’t even get considered if you don’t have a car, a house or savings This really gets me mad, because I’m such a person I feel if there’s no house there’s no feeling of safety, so having a house is a pre-condition Do you know now how much it costs to buy a house/apartment on the 3rd or 4th ring road [Beijing] At least 1 to 2 million, a bit more it’s 3 to 4 million Do you know how much money that is? If I had this much money I could go find a prostitute every day I could do it for 20, 30 years and every day it’d be a different one So if a woman you’re dating asks you do you have a place, a car? And you say I don’t Then she says “Then why are we still talking?” Then you should say “Why do you demand that I have a place and a car? Why?!” Do you look like Ling Zhiling or Marilyn Monroe? Definitely have to look at economic ability If my quality of life is at this level and I find someone who’s at this [lower] level Then after I get together with him, I have to become like this [live at a lower level]; that’s not realistic I have confidence. I have a place and a car so what am I afraid of? Getting married but not for love, that’s screwed up Romancing without intention of marrying is what’s screwed up If you don’t have money or a place then I won’t marry you If I meet this kind of woman, I just have one word for them Scram! How much money does a man need for you to have his child? Savings of about 300,000rmb, then we can consider having a kid On the condition that he has a place, he also needs about 400-500 thousand For me to have a child, my condition is at least 100,000 in savings And a place that only my husband and I live in Does things like marriage, having a kid really need that much money? I feel if you have a kid you need to be able to care for him If you can’t guarantee him a good living environment at least on a level about the same as others his/her age Then I feel the child will have issues I feel if living conditions haven’t achieved a certain level it’s better not to have a child If you say it takes 1 or 2 million for me to have a child Problem is do you need that much $ for the kid? That’s enough to raise him to adulthood! First you have to be able to afford the birth; even the birth will cost 100-200 thousand Then the child has to go to school, then go abroad That’s at least 1 to 2 million right? Then the child has to get married. That’s another 1-2 million! So for me he needs at least 5 million I feel that she loves the 5 million and not me so I won’t marry her. It’s very simple! Question 3 – If a man doesn’t have this much money, is he garbage? I do feel salary is a yardstick for a man’s ability If my husband’s salary is not as high as mine I would mind If he wants a better life and he wants the wife to go work for it. That just won’t do This society these days, money is the most realistic standard for measuring a person’s ability Then she should marry money. She doesn’t want men; she wants money Her mind’s been corrupted; it’s become glue! Her life values and morals have collapsed. This type of life is meaningless In my heart, I feel it’s sufficient if I can afford whatever I want to buy, whatever I want to eat Typical corrupted morals spewing nonesense If my other half says she wants to eat and buy whatever she wants, then I feel she won’t treat me well She’s just looking for a contract to sell her body to me Instead of asking women why don’t we ask the men if they feel they should have money? I feel society now is actually very egalitarian Why should men have so much money. Can’t women make their own money? Do they have to depend on the men? I feel with this kind of thing you need to take a broad view Men want to convince you that they’ll work hard in the future But anyone can speak empty words; why don’t you show me with your actions? If he has no ambition, lives aimlessly and just likes to play, then I feel he’s not far from garbage If a man is just happy with his current state and has no ideals and doesn’t want to improve his life then he’s garbage No ambition, no skills and doesn’t have looks, then this type of man is not far from garbage As for those women who say men who don’t have money are garbage I feel this type of woman is best suited for working at a night club or being a mistress for rich men This way she can reduce her chances of running into garbage If you feel a man with no money is garbage, then does that mean relationships are like high stakes financial transactions? Marriage is actually just like doing a deal, you need to maintain your calm and your reason First you have to protect yourself If women have to make themselves into products for sale Ok, that’s fine, but doesn’t mean I’m interested in buying! All animal mating in the world requires resources I feel this so called high stakes mating is really necessary No matter if it’s animals or humans for mating one partner always needs something to attract the other You’re responsible for earning money for the family and I’m responsible for being beautiful like a flower If I ask that you have earning potential, but if you can only make 2000rmb per month Then you shouldn’t expect the woman to have 36C breasts and be 1.68, 1.7 meters tall That’s just not realistic Actually those women who look for money and see their youth from 20-25 as a bargaining chip Actuallly these women are pretty sad They only have 5 years of youth and during this time they want to trade it like a product Trade their youth for something of more value…it’s really sad. really sad It’s not that if I find a man with money then I’ll definitely not have true love If under the condition of there being true love and I find someone with money That’s maybe not idealistic but certainly understandable I feel these women are so pragmatic, then we men don’t need to be so pure hearted either, right? 2011.12.2>

25 thoughts on “High Stakes Mating – Chinese Men and Women Face Off

  1. WOW! Chinese women are just as bad as American women. Back in 1997 I chose not to marry. In the US we have a 50% divorce rate and 70% of divorces are filed by women. An increasing % of men are now deciding not to marry. Now it's 16 years later and I have a nice house on a half acre lot, 20 minutes from work, a nice condo with no mortgage, and no worries.
    For women marriage = security
    For a man it's the opposite.

  2. lol…Aren't they wonderful? I'm curious that if women have always been this way, so callous and unfeeling, then why were men the ones involved with war and killing when clearly women have the right emotional disposition for it {complete lack of remorse or conscience}? That probably can be answered with this. Despite all their ambition for infinite materialistic success and "security", they lack the abilities, motivation, and vision to make their desires and wishes a reality.

  3. It's almost as if their core emotional scope of expression and insight has been permanently governed or limited no further than an incessantly spoiled child of 5 years age. This extreme form of selfish desires at the expense of anyone else is known as solipsism. To these women nothing exists in the world other than their own insatiable wants and "needs". All other human beings { more specifically men} and the natural world are nothing more than expendable commodities. This is most destructive.

  4. And we are seeing the results of this destructive mindset as our family structure decays continuously into what is going to inevitably collapse the very fabric of human civilization. More men are waking up and the more of us that do wake up the louder our screams and warnings will be heard.

  5. Every single woman in this vid was average at best. Plain janes making demands as if they were 21 year old Kim Kardashians. Any man with that much money is not interested in some flat chested, flat assed entitled chinese bitch with a bad attitude. This is female hypergamy. All the cows want to fuck the same bull. They wait and get fucked and chucked by bad boys then finally settle for a a guy making average cash when they hit 30. Divorce his ass, steal his cash and back on the cock carrousel

  6. All I can say is that if this kind of thinking is common amongst Chinese men then I say "Go Chinese men!" I hope lots of Chinese men are thinking this way so that women will be forced to face the fact that they can't score a guy even though there are more guys in China.

    Let the "Man up and marry that slut!" newspaper articles begin!

  7. I still think American women are worse.

    Even though Chinese women make all those materialistic demands, they are also realistic enough to know they would have to bring something to the table in return. That is why you do not see too many Chinese women who are single mothers or fat.

    American women, on the other hand, make similar demands but then bring NOTHING to the table. The only things they bring (usually) is bad attitude, children and fat.

  8. Why do Chinese men even bother with marriage? Why don't they just go their own way, not date at all, and go to a wh0re once or twice a week?

  9. "If I had this much money I could go find a prostitute every day. I could do it for 20-30 years and every day it'd be a different one"

    Thug lyyyyyyyyyyyyyfe

  10. These age 25+ people are called left over women. You should take what you can get before the relentless wall crushes you.

  11. This is what happens when there is a surplus of males… And thanks to the migrant invasion of Europe (99% young males), this will be like this in nearly every Western country! Unless something is done.

  12. So they measure mens entire worth in money? Okay, id like to see what happens WHEN one of these women marry and reproduce with a millionare pedophile. Lets see them maintain this standard when deal rich millionare hubby is fucking their kid!

  13. Why they consider women post 25 yrs old no longer marriage material is beyond me. Most of chinese girls dont fully hit puberty till post 30 yrs old (look wise) any way. Why would u want to marry a teenage boy without even knowing how she is going to turn out

  14. Back in the 20's Einstein visited China and asked why Chinese men even bother. Funny how nothing has changed. Most of my Asian friends who can either marry Russian, black or Latina women. That really says A LOT.

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